Cape Cod, a picturesque peninsula on the eastern coast of Massachusetts, is a beloved destination for those seeking a romantic weekend escape. With its charming seaside towns, stunning beaches, and abundance of natural beauty, Cape Cod offers the perfect setting for couples to reconnect and create lasting memories. If you are looking for a place to spend the year’s most romantic holiday, there are lots of Valentine’s Day activities in Cape Cod. Here are some of the top ways to spend a romantic weekend in this enchanting region.
1. Indulge in Gourmet Dining Experiences
Cape Cod is renowned for its exceptional seafood and culinary offerings, making it the perfect destination for couples who appreciate fine dining. Discover charming restaurants or cozy bistros that offer intimate settings and delectable dishes. Savor the freshest local catches, such as succulent lobster, tender scallops, or flaky cod, paired with a bottle of wine from the region’s vineyards. Finish your meal with a decadent dessert and linger over conversations that deepen your connection.
Brewster’s own Spinnaker on Main Street has been voted one of the top “Sweet 16 Most Romantic Destination Restaurants” in the state. You read that right, not just one of the most romantic restaurants in Cape Cod, one of the most romantic restaurants in Massachusetts. During the off season they are open Thursday through Sunday. Lucky that Valentine’s Day falls on a Friday in 2025.
Every Saturday at 6 pm, Ocean Edge Resort has Martinis at the Mansion. The menu boasts signature martinis as well as appetizers served in martini glasses. This is a chance to get all dolled up because classy attire is recommended.
Not far from the Inn is also Scargo Café, a beloved year-round restaurant with an excellent menu, spectacular service and a cozy, warm ambiance.
2. Explore Historic Lighthouses
Cape Cod is home to numerous historic lighthouses, each with its own unique charm and story. These sentinels of the sea have witnessed countless love stories, and capturing a photo together at the base is a truly romantic gesture. Plan a visit to one of these iconic Cape Cod structures. The grounds of Nobska Light in Woods Hole are open from dawn to dusk. Since tours do not start up until late spring, you may find the grounds to be empty so you can explore on your own. It is said to be good luck to kiss in the shadow of Nobska Light. The parking lot for Chatham Lighthouse Beach faces east. Cozy up in the warmth of your car and watch the sunrise there together. The Nauset Lighthouse is the familiar red and white striped lighthouse shown on the Cape Cod Potato Chip bag, and is a very popular location for those Instagram shots. And of course, there is the popular Highland Lighthouse, which was the very first lighthouse erected in the United States (commissioned by George Washington). You’ll find it at the Cape Cod National Seashore – about 30 minutes north of the Nauset Lighthouse.
3. Stroll along the Beaches
One of the most iconic experiences in Cape Cod is walking hand-in-hand with your loved one along the pristine beaches. The beaches near Brewster are known for the daily Brewster Flats when the tide recedes over a mile out as it reveals sandbars and tidal pools full of life. Whether you choose the broad beaches and big waves along the Atlantic Ocean in Orleans or at the National Seashore, serene shores of Nantucket Sound in Chatham, the quiet Cape Cod Bay in Brewster, or the windswept dunes of Provincetown, the sound of the gentle waves and the feel of the soft sand underfoot create a truly romantic atmosphere. Winter sunsets are often spectacular, so as the sun sets, take a leisurely stroll and watch the sky come alive with vibrant hues, reflecting off the calm waters.
The beach may not be the first place you think of in the winter months, however, they can be quite pleasant on a sunny day. Bundle up and explore your own “private” beach that seems to be reserved just for you and your favorite person. Do not forget to draw your names in the sand surrounded by a heart. As an added bonus, parking permits for the beach are not required from Labor Day until the beginning of June.
4. Create a Symbol of Your Love at the Sandwich Glass Museum
Every Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday afternoon, the Sandwich Glass Museum hosts the Glass Experience where you can make your own paperweight or blown glass ornament. An expert glass blower will guide you through the process of working with molten glass. Every time you see your finished product you will remember the fun you had together. Add this to any Cape Cod romantic getaway or make it a special Valentine’s Day treat. Curious about the process but not sure you want to make your own? The museum has glass blowing demonstrations every hour. The Sandwich Glass Museum is open daily from April until December, and Wednesday-Sunday in February and March.
5. Sample Local Wine or Spirits
Truro Vineyards handcrafts over a dozen varietals of wine each year. They also make award-winning gin, rum, whiskey, and bourbon. They are open year-round for tastings and events. During the summer months, it is highly recommended that visitors book a reservation in advance for a tasting. When you visit in the cooler months, walk-ins are welcome so you can be more spontaneous in your Cape Cod romantic weekend activities. The tasting room is indoors but there is also a lovely outdoor patio with heat lamps. Want a keepsake from your visit? Purchase some wine in a lighthouse shaped bottle to enjoy once you get back home.
6. Get Some Sweets for Your Sweetie
Nothing says Valentine’s Day more than chocolate. With a visit to the Candy Manor in Chatham, or Stage Stop Candy in Harwich you will find chocolate truffles, fudge, taffy that is homemade daily, and many classic gummy candies. The Cape Cod Chocolatier has an entire section of Valentine’s themed treats from milk chocolate hearts to chocolate roses to a truffle box built to fit on the neck of a bottle of wine. Make a date out of picking out chocolates together.
7. Indulge in Couples Spa Treatments
After a day of exploring the wonders of Cape Cod, treat yourselves to a couples spa experience. Many of the local spas offer packages designed specifically for romantic getaways, featuring treatments such as couples massages, body wraps, and facial treatments. Unwind in the tranquil setting, sipping champagne and enjoying each other’s company, as you relax and rejuvenate. Cape Cod Day Spa offers regular as well as deep tissue couples massages. La Petite Day Spa in Chatham has a full menu of massages, facials, and nail services. And on the more intimate scale, Sasha’s Yoga studio pampers couples with massage services as well.
Conclusion
Cape Cod offers a wealth of romantic experiences that cater to couples seeking a weekend of relaxation, adventure, and deep connection. From strolling along the beaches to indulging in gourmet dining and pampering spa treatments, this enchanting destination provides the perfect backdrop for creating lasting memories with your loved one. Whether you’re celebrating a special occasion or simply seeking a rejuvenating escape, a romantic weekend in Cape Cod is sure to leave you feeling refreshed, rejuvenated, and more deeply in love.
